Reclaiming Pride, Rewriting History
A reflection on Pride, chosen family, and healing queer history. This essay explores Maya Angelou’s words, the roots of Pride as resistance, and what it means to become the parent you never had. A celebration of courage, grief, and rewriting the story with love.
Skull and Scars: Masculinity, Rage, and Redemption in The Punisher
Frank Castle, Marvel’s Punisher, isn’t a hero—he’s a mirror. This blog explores why men are drawn to his brutal honesty, sacrifice, and vigilante justice. From grief and rage to redemption and control, discover what The Punisher reveals about modern masculinity and the war within.
Review of The Rambo Report: Five Films, Three Books, One Legend by Nat Segaloff
An essential guide to the legacy of Rambo, The Rambo Report explores the character’s evolution from David Morrell’s novel to action icon. With sharp insights on masculinity, war, and pop culture, Nat Segaloff delivers a powerful look at one of Hollywood’s most enduring legends.
It’s Okay To Be Angry
A powerful personal essay on queer masculinity, anger, and healing. Erick DuPree explores male wounds, the hero’s journey, and why masculinity isn’t toxic by nature—but in need of community, kinship, and care. Reclaiming manhood starts with letting ourselves be angry.
My GI JOE Collecting Rules
A personal look at G.I. Joe collecting from 1982–1987. Vintage figures, vehicles, and memories—no grading, no neon, just real American heroes the way they lived in your hands.
The Rambo Myth: How America Turned a War Criminal into a Hero
Rambo began as a brutal critique of war but became a symbol of American exceptionalism and toxic masculinity. This essay exposes how Hollywood rewrote a war criminal into a hero—and what that says about our need for moral clarity and mythic manhood.
Review of Swole: The Making of Men and the Meaning of Muscle by Michael Andor Brodeur
Swole is more than just a book for men, and certainly more than a book about the gym. It’s for anyone who’s ever felt out of place in their own skin, or questioned the messages the world sends about how a body should look.
Review of The Leatherman’s Handbook: Golden Anniversary Edition by Larry Townsend
A bold, personal review of The Leatherman’s Handbook: Golden Anniversary Edition by Larry Townsend. This foundational leather and BDSM classic remains vital for queer history, kink ethics, and radical consent. A must-read for leatherfolk and the kink-curious alike.
Rebuilding Manhood: How Collecting GI Joe Helped Me Reclaim a Lost Identity
Collecting GI Joe and He-Man figures helped me reclaim a lost sense of identity, heal childhood wounds, confront masculinity, and rebuild the boy I once was — and the man I’m still becoming.
Storm Shadow vs. Snake Eyes: Ninja Brotherhood and Broken Masculinity
Storm Shadow and Snake Eyes aren’t just rival ninjas—they’re a mythic tale of brotherhood, betrayal, and redemption. From Vietnam to the Arashikage clan, their story shaped 1980s masculinity: silent, wounded, loyal—and still searching for a way to heal.
Review of King, Warrior, Magician, Lover — Rediscovering the Inner Architecture of Masculinity
A powerful exploration of the male psyche through four core archetypes—King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. This personal review of Moore and Gillette’s classic offers insight into mature masculinity, emotional integration, and inner balance. A must-read for men on a journey of self-discovery.
Masc for Masc? Desire, Discipline, and the Market of Queer Manhood
Commodifying masculinity- how dating apps reinforce norms, and shape desire in queer culture—unpacking the phrase “masc for masc” through an anthropological and critical lens.
What Exactly Does It Mean To Be “Man Enough?”
A personal essay exploring fatherlessness, gender norms, and queer identity—unpacking what it means to be “man enough” in a world that punishes softness and fetishizes masculinity.
Review of Shop Class as Soulcraft: An Inquiry into the Value of Work by Matthew Crawford
A powerful reflection on manual labor, identity, and meaning, Shop Class as Soulcraft explores how working with your hands can restore dignity, purpose, and connection in modern life.
Review of Iron John by Robert Bly: A Mythic Journey into True Masculinity
A poetic and personal reflection on Robert Bly’s Iron John, exploring masculinity through myth, emotion, and initiation. A must-read for men seeking depth, purpose, and healing. True strength lies in feeling—this book shows the way.
Occult Symbolism in He-Man and the Masters of the Universe
Much like ceremonial magic, where ritual tools such as swords embody the practitioner’s control over the mind and spirit, He-Man’s sword does more than grant him physical power — it bestows wisdom and responsibility.
Review of The Way of Men by Jack Donovan
A critical review of The Way of Men by Jack Donovan, exposing its glorification of violence, exclusion, and homophobia. Explore how his vision of masculinity ignores history, intimacy, and community in favor of a rigid, fear-based model rooted in domination, not true brotherhood.
Best G.I. Joe Vehicles of the 1980s (IMHO!)
Explore the best G.I. Joe vehicles from 1982–1989, including the Skystriker, Dragonfly, WHALE, Tomahawk, VAMP, Mauler, and Wolverine. These classic rides brought epic air, land, and sea battles to life and remain iconic in toy history. Discover the vehicles that defined a generation.
1982 G.I. Joe: The Original 13
Explore the original 1982 G.I. Joe action figures—The Real American Hero line that launched a legend. From Snake Eyes to Scarlett, dive into the stories, file cards, and nostalgic impact of the Original 13. Perfect for collectors and fans of vintage 3.75” scale figures.
Review of The Adonis Complex — A Must-Read on Male Body Image and Cultural Masculinity
The Adonis Complex exposes the hidden crisis of male body image issues—from muscle dysmorphia to steroid abuse. A must-read for anyone exploring masculinity, fitness culture, or men’s mental health. This powerful book reveals the emotional cost of chasing the "ideal" male body.